We have rented, owned, sold, rented and own again! Been coming here since 2002 and love it! I've read some critical reviews about rental lots and so sorry they had that experience. Rentals are from individual owners so a little more diligence is required, like talking to the owner and asking when the last time they actually saw their lot and by who and how often it is maintained.. But, for the most part we have had only positive experiences. The rules are for the benefit of all the owners and residences and it's very clearly stated what the rules are regarding the age and type of RV allowed. This is not unusual for an upscale resort, which this is. It can be very kid friendly, depending on your kids I guess. There is golfing, swimming, hiking, tennis and pickleball, all must be accompanied by an adult. As far as the HOA fee is concerned, you won't be responsible for that as a renter but you will have access to all the amenities with no additional charge. If you are looking to buy, you might check out what comparable resorts charge for HOA fees. Resorts in the Palm Desert area charge as much as $1200/mo for HOA fees and restricted to Motorcoach only. With about a 15-20 minute drive to Temecula, we find it very convenient and also very peaceful. We are happy with our choice to own a lot here and adore our neighbors. The restaurant is good and the market is very well stocked. Great place for a relaxing vacation or extended stay.